Who would you meet?
In our expectation of wonderful, sometimes we imagine a magical encounter. This event has the power to fill the void of our ideas or our hearts, we open the doors to a magical world where barriers disappear barely touched and where the proposals flit like butterflies golden.
We're big dreamers and we think so incantation: "if I met someone who ... so I ... "which is available in" I could do this, I'd be happy, I succeed, I have a different life, I would one to one another ... "residual illusion after reading our Children. Our appeasement then exulted when the prince crossed the eyes of his princess, revealed to itself, an absolute promise radical change. The peculiarity of the story is to stop the kiss and the dream of desert reality. Certainly!
However, the reality needs to dream to gain momentum and grow. Think it's possible to put into perspective and take time to choose what suits us best, without taking too much risk. Do not deprive us. Who would you meet? How is this different? What qualities does he hold it? How would your life be different? How dare you?
Answering these questions is to discover the facet of our personality that we have to release. If I dream to meet an artist who will open me the way to a greater creativity is probably because I wish to explore paths less marked. I forgot how to think somewhere out of frame. My costume will be the world to visit. If I want to find someone organized, realistic, loyal, is that I probably lost sight in my own life a certain balance between routines and improvisation. I must return to a little more restraint between two impulses.
"Oneself as Another" writes philosopher Paul Ricoeur. Before meeting each other, we must meet you. Being able to know what is ours and what we undecided on plan to another. The other role is not to carry our burdens, he already has his.
more we are strangers to ourselves, the more we meet people away from what we should be sustainable, both in our personal and professional lives. We know better, the closer we get the people with whom we can build a relationship fulfilled and happy. The magic is to believe in our own power, that to grow and achieve our dreams.
4 verbs for communicate better
When we are in relationship with someone, we usually prefer an axis of communication. Yet, in a balanced and healthy relationship, everyone should ask, give, receive and reject.
Request: to express what you need and take the risk of a negative answer.
Give : being able to offer without expectation of return or receipt.
Receive : to be in an open position and try not to prejudge the intentions of the other.
Deny : the difference between what we tend to refuse a person and deny the person. You should know not to dare to say so.
