Patience - Confidence - Perseverance
And presto! We're already in 2010, for better or for worse. This is the rule the game and there is no way to negotiate the extremes. By cons, there are some nice openings along the line of life, a little up and a lot of light to make the journey on earth pleasant, entertaining, challenging and not too stressful.
Since the beginning of the year came to my mind like a refrain that trilogy soothing: patience .. trust .. perseverance. You may say that these are only words and they refer to realities that are challenges for most of us, in short they are only effective time to decide. Yet if you take a moment to consider, you will discover that their "power" quasi-hypnotic is far from trivial and their impact goes beyond the seconds for their articulation.
Imagine yourself ensconced (s) in your chair facing the incredible list of tasks that you promised (e) to do for the day. Despite your energy, it is likely that the stress begins to rise and doubt to invade you. I pass on all the mental flogging that you impose your story to undermine morale and find refuge in a fallback position. Well that's the time you need out the magic phrase: breathe, close your eyes and you focus on yourself (because it is important to you) and think or say patience ... confidence ... perseverance. you feel better?
What is "patience" mean? The message that "patience" is that you deliver the words of common sense "things come," it is useless to stir too much, you're not responsible to you alone (e) the unfolds around you. Avoiding the determinism, there is probably something that is played without us, that imposes its rhythm and control. By cons, what it depends on you for you to see things happen (your list of tasks). So throw in the machine 2010 your wishes, feed them from time to time and be patient. No stress.
"Confidence" ... that word is on everyone's lips, responsible for everything, deserter, saboteur, desired, prayed. How many times have we repeat "if I could trust ...". Decide now! Starting today, commit yourself to trust and see what happens different. Of course, you need to find other excuses to confront what frightens you but maybe you can choose going to reassure you that. Maybe you can make the choice of comfort rather than approach the grill. We can not have confidence in what we think is realistic and achievable.
Finally, let us come to "perseverance". This one also gives us many a headache. There are so many attractive flowers in our environment we have all become browsers, losing sight of the course we set ourselves. At least that is the discouragement, lack of recognition that undermines our spirits, the syndrome of "aquoiboniste" to quote Gainsbourg. Maybe we need to find goals that motivate us and really We regularly feed because their achievement is a source of energy. Can we persevere to achieve a situation that does not interest us, we fear we are threatened or worse?. "Perseverance" rhyme is with "matching", ie alignment of our values, our interests, our skills and our goals.
I wish you for 2010 to sing at the slightest weakness "... confidence ... patience perseverance" and remember that it is good to be alive.
Nathalie Martinez-Vogelsinger
Photo: from a drawing of Cambon
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